Removing Some of the Stress from Wedding Planning

January 11th, 2013

A marriage, is one of the most enjoyable times that a family can have together. It is also, one of the most stressful times that a family can have together. There are many reasons why it is stressful to have and to plan a marriage. One reason, is that a wedding, and the subsequent marriage is basically a time where a lot of raw nerves, and raw feelings are brought to the forefront. Secondly, there are so many difficult decisions that have to be made. For example the mother of the bride wedding dresses? Or more importantly the bride’s dress? Or, how about the bridesmaids, the groom, the groomsmen? What will all of these individuals wear?

It is for this reason, planning a wedding is extremely difficult. First off, it is basically impossible to come up with a decision that is going to be pleasing to everybody involved in the wedding. Without a doubt, there are going to be some hard feelings. Some people are just going to have to accept the decisions for example that the bride and groom make regarding the wardrobe of individuals who will be attending the wedding. And for some people this is not going to be easy. They’re going to feel as if their opinions are the most important. Even though it is not their wedding they are going to fight tooth and nail to see to it that their opinions are taken into consideration.

All of this can add a lot of stress on the bride and the groom. For this reason in many cases it is best if the bride and groom just make certain decisions, and enforce them. If certain members of the wedding party choose not to respect the bride and grooms wishes, this might be a good indication that they are not the right people to have in the wedding party.


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